社交禮儀常識1

　　一、穿著的禮節

　　1.正式(shi)應(ying)酬時，男士穿合時宜的西裝(zhuang)(zhuang)。女士穿合時宜的禮服、洋(yang)裝(zhuang)(zhuang)、套裝(zhuang)(zhuang)或旗袍(pao)。

　　在大(da)飯店吃飯，穿著要整齊、儀容要端(duan)莊。

　　2.女(nv)士中午不宜(yi)穿長(chang)(chang)裙或長(chang)(chang)旗袍。

　　3.男士打領帶的長度以蓋住皮(pi)帶頭為限，不(bu)宜過長或(huo)過短。

　　4.男(nan)士穿(chuan)西(xi)裝不宜穿(chuan)布鞋(xie)。襯(chen)衫以白色長袖(xiu)或淺色為宜，不宜穿(chuan)鮮艷(yan)大(da)紅或短袖(xiu)。

　　5.男(nan)士晚上(shang)應酬不宜穿(chuan)白色西(xi)裝。不管白天晚上(shang)，最好別穿(chuan)黑西(xi)裝配黑襯(chen)衫。 (拉丁美(mei)洲家有喪穿(chuan)全黑襯(chen)衫加(jia)黑西(xi)裝)

　　6.參加喪禮穿著宜樸素(su)，避免(mian)穿紅色衣服或(huo)打紅色領(ling)帶(dai)。

　　7.男士(shi)穿(chuan)雙(shuang)排(pai)扣西裝，要(yao)隨時扣上(shang)扣子(zi)。穿(chuan)單排(pai)扣西裝與人見面(mian)握手或起(qi)身講(jiang)話時，要(yao)扣上(shang)第一個扣子(zi)以示禮貌。穿(chuan)三(san)個扣子(zi)的西裝，第三(san)個扣子(zi)可(ke)以不扣。

　　8.參(can)加(jia)餐(can)會或是(shi)酒會，男士不宜穿(chuan)白色襪(wa)子(zi)。

　　9.旅(lv)游時，不可穿(chuan)西裝，要穿(chuan)便服(fu)和(he)休閑鞋。

　　10.不可穿睡(shui)衣出(chu)門，更(geng)不可穿睡(shui)衣接待客人，也不宜穿拖(tuo)鞋(xie)外出(chu)。

　　11.進(jin)入宴會廳前，要先脫下大衣(yi)并交(jiao)給侍者(zhe)掛(gua)在(zai)衣(yi)帽間。

　　12.宴會(hui)席間(jian)不可(ke)隨(sui)意脫(tuo)西裝，至少要征求主人同意才可(ke)脫(tuo)掉。

　　13.接到請帖(tie)時要看(kan)清楚服裝(zhuang)規(gui)定(ding)。規(gui)定(ding)穿(chuan)便服，則不宜(yi)穿(chuan)西裝(zhuang)赴宴。正(zheng)式宴會的請帖(tie)上，均寫明服裝(zhuang)規(gui)定(ding)。

　　14.日常生活中，穿(chuan)著要合乎年齡、身份及季節(jie)。

　　15.女士不(bu)宜把太(tai)陽眼鏡插在(zai)頭頂(ding)上。陰(yin)天及室內不(bu)宜戴太(tai)陽眼鏡。

　　二、吃飯的禮節

　　1.餐巾(jin)不是用來擦汗、擦眼鏡或刀叉。餐巾(jin)應至(zhi)于(yu)膝(xi)蓋上，不可掛于(yu)胸前。

　　勿拍打餐廳提供(gong)的紙餐巾(jin)，會驚嚇(xia)客人。

　　2.餐敘(xu)中，不可任意趴(pa)到桌下撿(jian)餐巾或拾物，會被誤(wu)認為行動詭異。

　　3.勿大聲或拍手喊叫(jiao)服務生，應以(yi)左手示(shi)意。

　　4.宴(yan)客(ke)時，男女(nv)主人要(yao)先舉(ju)杯敬(jing)賓客(ke)。賓客(ke)回(hui)敬(jing)，以(yi)(yi)一次為妥，并(bing)由主人開始依序敬(jing)起。不能(neng)跳(tiao)過某人，要(yao)依序敬(jing)酒。不可(ke)以(yi)(yi)水杯當酒敬(jing)人，為不擅飲(yin)酒者或女(nv)性可(ke)以(yi)(yi)水或果汁回(hui)敬(jing)。

　　5.女性不(bu)必主(zhu)動向客人(ren)敬酒。男性也不(bu)宜(yi)向隔桌友(you)人(ren)敬酒，更(geng)不(bu)宜(yi)離(li)桌到處敬酒，有喧賓奪主(zhu)之嫌。

　　6.正式(shi)餐(can)會絕無劃拳、逼酒及敬煙等不良動作。

　　7.吃(chi)(chi)西餐刀(dao)叉是由外(wai)向內(nei)依次取用(yong)。放(fang)最(zui)左最(zui)右邊的(de)是吃(chi)(chi)生菜的(de)刀(dao)叉;其次是吃(chi)(chi)魚或(huo)吃(chi)(chi)肉用(yong)的(de)刀(dao)叉。盤子前橫放(fang)的(de)叉子或(huo)匙是吃(chi)(chi)甜點、喝(he)咖啡或(huo)喝(he)茶用(yong)的(de)。

　　8.西(xi)餐出菜(cai)順序(xu)是開胃菜(cai)(鮮蠔、小鮮蝦、什錦瓜果或(huo)沙拉)、湯、主食(肉或(huo)魚或(huo)其它)、甜(tian)點(布丁、蛋糕或(huo)冰淇淋)及咖啡或(huo)茶。

　　9.西餐(can)飲酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)有餐(can)前(qian)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(香檳(bin)、威士忌、紅白(bai)葡(pu)萄(tao)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)或調酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu))。飯中(zhong)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(紅白(bai)葡(pu)萄(tao)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)或紹興酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)。紅肉喝(he)(he)紅葡(pu)萄(tao)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)，吃魚選白(bai)葡(pu)萄(tao)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu))。飯后酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)有白(bai)蘭(lan)地(di)、高梁酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)或甜酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)。拿(na)(na)香檳(bin)杯(bei)(bei)(bei)或葡(pu)萄(tao)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)杯(bei)(bei)(bei)，手要(yao)(yao)握(wo)(wo)住杯(bei)(bei)(bei)腳。拿(na)(na)高腳杯(bei)(bei)(bei)要(yao)(yao)兼握(wo)(wo)住杯(bei)(bei)(bei)身(shen)(shen)。拿(na)(na)啤酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)杯(bei)(bei)(bei)則要(yao)(yao)握(wo)(wo)緊把手。喝(he)(he)白(bai)蘭(lan)地(di)要(yao)(yao)手握(wo)(wo)杯(bei)(bei)(bei)身(shen)(shen)。白(bai)葡(pu)萄(tao)酒(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)和香檳(bin)須放在冰筒中(zhong)冷藏(zang)再喝(he)(he)。

　　10.吃西餐時，餐桌上如(ru)放置一碗水，碗中(zhong)漂浮一片檸檬或花瓣，那是用來洗(xi)手指的(de)，千(qian)萬不可以端來喝。

　　11.宴(yan)會餐桌(zhuo)上每人面前擺水杯(bei)(bei)、紅白葡萄酒(jiu)杯(bei)(bei)等(deng)杯(bei)(bei)子。不可(ke)用玻璃杯(bei)(bei)盛茶及咖(ka)啡。喝茶及咖(ka)啡均要(yao)使(shi)用墊盤。

　　12.吃西餐時，自己的(de)面包是放(fang)在(zai)左(zuo)邊的(de)小盤(pan)子。吃面包要撕一片吃一片。

　　13.不宜低頭喝湯，要以匙(chi)就口，喝湯不出聲。

　　14.吃(chi)肉或吃(chi)魚要切一(yi)塊吃(chi)一(yi)塊，并(bing)以叉子叉肉或魚送入口中。

　　15.西餐吃畢時，刀叉合(he)并齊放(fang)在盤(pan)子(zi)上(shang)，叉子(zi)向上(shang)、刀刃向內;未用完(wan)時，刀子(zi)分開擺(bai)在盤(pan)子(zi)上(shang)左(zuo)右兩邊。

　　16.吃中西餐時(shi)，若(ruo)要短暫(zan)離席(xi)，要把餐巾掛(gua)在椅背上或對折放在面前(qian)的大盤(pan)子下(xia)。

　　17.男士(shi)有為(wei)女士(shi)拉椅子的禮節，也可由侍者代勞。

　　18.正式(shi)宴會(hui)，進餐廳時(shi)，要先看放在入口的座(zuo)位圖(tu)，找出自(zi)己的座(zuo)位，以(yi)免上(shang)桌時(shi)再倉(cang)皇(huang)找座(zuo)位。

　　19.參加雞尾酒會時(shi)，勿(wu)喝(he)太(tai)多，否則極易喝(he)醉。

　　20.請帖指名邀請夫婦(fu)時(shi)，若夫人臨時(shi)有事不(bu)能(neng)出席，可由女(nv)兒代替(ti)，但(dan)要先(xian)告知主(zhu)人。

　　21.接到請帖后，如不能出席，要(yao)盡早設詞婉(wan)告主人并致謝。

　　三、住的禮節

　　1.進出旅館或自家房門，關門要輕聲。

　　2.客人(ren)來家?堳臛(hu)X時，進門最好(hao)不叫客人(ren)脫鞋。

　　3.室內(nei)收音(yin)機電(dian)視勿開太(tai)大聲，以(yi)免(mian)干(gan)擾鄰(lin)居安寧(ning)。

　　4.與鄰居要和睦相(xiang)(xiang)處及守望相(xiang)(xiang)助，見面主動打(da)招呼。

　　5.進入已有乘(cheng)客的電梯后，臉(lian)要立即朝門。電梯內勿與人交談、吸煙(yan)或飲(yin)食，遵守先出后進原(yuan)則。

　　6.女士(shi)(shi)獨(du)自進入電梯時，如有(you)男(nan)士(shi)(shi)在(zai)場，則不必(bi)背(bei)對男(nan)士(shi)(shi)，要側(ce)站以(yi)防(fang)萬一。

　　7.在(zai)國(guo)外住旅(lv)館時，每天(tian)早上出門前勿(wu)忘在(zai)枕頭下放(fang)一或二美(mei)元小費。國(guo)內亦然。

　　8.晚上睡覺(jue)前，記得拉上臥室窗簾。

　　9.住公寓(yu)大廈(sha)不可在門外(wai)放鞋(xie)子、鞋(xie)柜及鞋(xie)墊等雜物。

　　10.住家(jia)垃(la)圾依規定分類。

　　四、行的禮節

　　1.搭乘(cheng)主人開車(che)時，主人右邊(bian)(bian)是(shi)首位(wei)(wei)(wei)，后(hou)(hou)排右邊(bian)(bian)是(shi)第(di)二位(wei)(wei)(wei)，左(zuo)邊(bian)(bian)是(shi)第(di)三位(wei)(wei)(wei)，中間是(shi)第(di)四位(wei)(wei)(wei)。第(di)三位(wei)(wei)(wei)最后(hou)(hou)上(shang)車(che)。

　　2.搭(da)乘司機開車(che)(che)時(shi)(shi)，后排(pai)右邊是首(shou)位(wei)，左邊是第(di)(di)二位(wei)，中間是第(di)(di)三位(wei)。司機右手邊是第(di)(di)四位(wei)。第(di)(di)四位(wei)最后上(shang)車(che)(che)。乘坐轎車(che)(che)時(shi)(shi)要讓位(wei)尊長輩先(xian)上(shang)后下。

　　3.搭乘(cheng)公共電扶(fu)梯靠右站，左(zuo)側通行。

　　4.搭乘捷運(yun)或公車要(yao)遵守(shou)先(xian)下后上(shang)原(yuan)則。車上(shang)不可大(da)聲交談及抽煙。相機讓座。

　　5.與女士、位高、年長者同行時(shi)，要(yao)讓(rang)彼等走在右(you)邊。

　　6.上(shang)(shang)下樓梯(ti)時，要(yao)讓女士(shi)、位高(gao)或年長者先(xian)上(shang)(shang)后(hou)下。

　　7.三人(ren)以上同行，勿(wu)橫排行走，以免占據(ju)馬路妨(fang)害后方行人(ren)通(tong)行。

　　8.一人獨(du)行時，要走在馬路(lu)右(you)邊，遵(zun)守(shou)規(gui)則(ze)。

　　9.開車不(bu)任意(yi)按喇叭(ba)。

　　五、稱呼禮儀

　　1.正確、適當的稱呼。

　　它(ta)不僅反(fan)映著自(zi)身的(de)(de)(de)(de)教(jiao)養、對(dui)(dui)對(dui)(dui)方尊重的(de)(de)(de)(de)程(cheng)度(du)，甚至還體現著雙方關系達到的(de)(de)(de)(de)程(cheng)度(du)和(he)社會風尚。務(wu)必注(zhu)(zhu)意：一(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)要合乎常(chang)規，二(er)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)要入(ru)鄉隨(sui)俗(su)這(zhe)兩(liang)點。另外，還應(ying)對(dui)(dui)生活中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)、工作中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)、外交(jiao)中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)、稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)禁忌細心掌(zhang)(zhang)握，認真區別。生活中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)應(ying)當(dang)親切、自(zi)然、準確、合理(li)(li)。在(zai)(zai)工作崗位上，人(ren)們彼(bi)此之(zhi)間的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)有(you)(you)特(te)殊性的(de)(de)(de)(de)，要求莊重、正式、規范。以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)交(jiao)往對(dui)(dui)象的(de)(de)(de)(de)職(zhi)(zhi)務(wu)、職(zhi)(zhi)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)相(xiang)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)，這(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)種(zhong)最(zui)常(chang)見的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)方法。比(bi)如(ru)張經理(li)(li)、李局長(chang)。國(guo)際交(jiao)往中(zhong)，因為(wei)國(guo)情、民族、宗(zong)教(jiao)、文化背景的(de)(de)(de)(de)不同(tong)，稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)就顯得千(qian)差萬別。一(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)要掌(zhang)(zhang)握一(yi)般性規律，二(er)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)要注(zhu)(zhu)意國(guo)別差異。在(zai)(zai)政務(wu)交(jiao)往中(zhong)，常(chang)見的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)除“先(xian)生”、“小姐”、“女士(shi)”外，還有(you)(you)兩(liang)種(zhong)方法，一(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)職(zhi)(zhi)務(wu)(對(dui)(dui)軍界人(ren)士(shi)，可以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)軍銜相(xiang)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng))，二(er)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)對(dui)(dui)地位較高的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)“閣下(xia)”。教(jiao)授、法官、律師、醫(yi)生、博士(shi)，因為(wei)他們在(zai)(zai)社會中(zhong)很受尊重，可以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)直接作為(wei)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)。在(zai)(zai)英(ying)國(guo)、美國(guo)、加拿大、澳大利(li)亞、新(xin)西蘭等講英(ying)語的(de)(de)(de)(de)國(guo)家里，姓(xing)(xing)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)一(yi)般有(you)(you)兩(liang)個部分(fen)構成，通常(chang)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字在(zai)(zai)前，姓(xing)(xing)氏(shi)在(zai)(zai)后(hou)。對(dui)(dui)于關系密切的(de)(de)(de)(de)，不論輩份可以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)直呼(hu)其名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)而不稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)姓(xing)(xing)。比(bi)如(ru)：俄羅(luo)斯人(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)有(you)(you)本(ben)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)，父(fu)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)和(he)姓(xing)(xing)氏(shi)三個部分(fen)。婦女的(de)(de)(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)婚前使用(yong)父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)，婚后(hou)用(yong)夫姓(xing)(xing)，本(ben)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)和(he)父(fu)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)通常(chang)不變。日本(ben)人(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)排列和(he)我(wo)們一(yi)樣，不同(tong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)姓(xing)(xing)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字數較多。日本(ben)婦女婚前使用(yong)父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)，婚后(hou)使用(yong)夫姓(xing)(xing)，本(ben)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)不變。

　　2.稱呼的五個禁(jin)忌

　　我們在使(shi)用(yong)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)時(shi)，一定(ding)(ding)(ding)要避(bi)免(mian)下(xia)面幾種失(shi)敬的(de)(de)(de)(de)做法。1)錯誤(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)。常見的(de)(de)(de)(de)錯誤(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)無非就(jiu)是(shi)誤(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)讀或是(shi)誤(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)會。誤(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)讀也(ye)就(jiu)是(shi)念錯姓名(ming)。為(wei)了避(bi)免(mian)這(zhe)種情況的(de)(de)(de)(de)發(fa)生，對于(yu)(yu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)認(ren)識的(de)(de)(de)(de)字，事先要有(you)(you)所準(zhun)備;如果是(shi)臨時(shi)遇到，就(jiu)要謙虛請教。誤(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)會，主要是(shi)對被(bei)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)年(nian)紀、輩份(fen)、婚(hun)否以(yi)及與(yu)其他人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)關系作出(chu)了錯誤(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)判斷。比如，將未婚(hun)婦女稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)“夫人(ren)(ren)”，就(jiu)屬于(yu)(yu)誤(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)會。相對年(nian)輕的(de)(de)(de)(de)女性，都可(ke)以(yi)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)“小姐(jie)”，這(zhe)樣對方(fang)也(ye)樂意(yi)聽(ting)。2)使(shi)用(yong)不(bu)(bu)(bu)通行的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)。有(you)(you)些稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)，具(ju)有(you)(you)一定(ding)(ding)(ding)的(de)(de)(de)(de)地域性，比如山(shan)東人(ren)(ren)喜歡稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)“伙(huo)計”，但(dan)南(nan)方(fang)人(ren)(ren)聽(ting)來“伙(huo)計”肯定(ding)(ding)(ding)是(shi)“打工(gong)仔(zi)”。中國(guo)人(ren)(ren)把(ba)配偶經常稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)“愛人(ren)(ren)”，在外國(guo)人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)意(yi)識里，“愛人(ren)(ren)”是(shi)“第三者”的(de)(de)(de)(de)意(yi)思(si)。3)使(shi)用(yong)不(bu)(bu)(bu)當(dang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)。工(gong)人(ren)(ren)可(ke)以(yi)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)為(wei)“師傅(fu)”，道士、和尚、尼姑可(ke)以(yi)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)“出(chu)家人(ren)(ren)”。但(dan)如果用(yong)這(zhe)些來稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)其他人(ren)(ren)，沒準(zhun)還會讓對方(fang)產生自己被(bei)貶低的(de)(de)(de)(de)感覺。4)使(shi)用(yong)庸俗的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)。有(you)(you)些稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)在正式場合不(bu)(bu)(bu)適合使(shi)用(yong)。例如，“兄弟”、“哥們兒(er)”等(deng)一類的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)，雖(sui)然聽(ting)起來親切(qie)，但(dan)顯得檔次不(bu)(bu)(bu)高。5)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)外號(hao)。對于(yu)(yu)關系一般(ban)的(de)(de)(de)(de)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)要自作主張給對方(fang)起外號(hao)，更不(bu)(bu)(bu)能用(yong)道聽(ting)途(tu)說(shuo)來的(de)(de)(de)(de)外號(hao)去(qu)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)對方(fang)。也(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)能隨便拿別人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)姓名(ming)亂開玩(wan)笑。

　　六、握手禮儀

　　握(wo)手(shou)是溝通思(si)想、交流(liu)感情(qing)、增進友誼(yi)的一種方式。

　　握手時應注意(yi)不用濕手或(huo)臟(zang)手，不戴手套和墨(mo)鏡，不交叉(cha)握手，不搖晃或(huo)推拉，不坐著與人握手。

　　握(wo)手(shou)的順(shun)序一(yi)般講究“尊者(zhe)決定”，即待女士(shi)、長輩(bei)、已婚者(zhe)、職位高者(zhe)伸出手(shou)之后，男(nan)士(shi)、晚輩(bei)、未婚者(zhe)、職位低者(zhe)方可伸手(shou)去呼應。平輩(bei)之間(jian)，應主動握(wo)手(shou)。

　　若(ruo)一(yi)個(ge)人(ren)(ren)要與許多人(ren)(ren)握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)，順序是：先(xian)(xian)長輩后(hou)(hou)晚輩，先(xian)(xian)主人(ren)(ren)后(hou)(hou)客人(ren)(ren)，先(xian)(xian)上(shang)級(ji)后(hou)(hou)下級(ji)，先(xian)(xian)女士后(hou)(hou)男士。握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)要用右手(shou)(shou)(shou)，目視對方(fang)，表示(shi)尊(zun)重。男士同女士握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)，一(yi)般只輕(qing)握(wo)對方(fang)的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)指部分(fen)，不宜握(wo)得太緊(jin)太久。右手(shou)(shou)(shou)握(wo)住后(hou)(hou)，左手(shou)(shou)(shou)又搭在其手(shou)(shou)(shou)上(shang)，是我國(guo)常(chang)用的(de)禮節，表示(shi)更為親(qin)切，更加尊(zun)重對方(fang)。

　　七、其它應注意禮節

　　1.搭飛機、參加演奏(zou)會、重要(yao)會議或演講會時要(yao)記得關(guan)掉(diao)手機。

　　2.球場觀看高(gao)爾夫時，當選(xuan)手在擊球或是(shi)開球時，均要關掉(diao)手機，也不可高(gao)聲談話或喊叫。

　　3.拜(bai)訪朋友要先約定時間與地點，不(bu)(bu)宜隨便串門子。拜(bai)訪或赴宴不(bu)(bu)可遲到或早到太(tai)多。

　　4.晚輩(bei)(bei)要主動表(biao)示(shi)前往(wang)拜會長(chang)輩(bei)(bei)，不宜(yi)隨便叫長(chang)輩(bei)(bei)來(lai)(lai)玩。長(chang)輩(bei)(bei)表(biao)示(shi)來(lai)(lai)訪(fang)時(shi)，不宜(yi)拒絕。

　　5.應酬場合，不隨便找人拍照。

　　6.參(can)加親友聚會，記得(de)帶合(he)適禮物相(xiang)送。

　　7.打電話要先報自己姓名(ming)，長話短說。

　　8.參加正式(shi)舞(wu)(wu)會時，要(yao)主動邀請鄰(lin)近的女士共舞(wu)(wu)，惟須注意(yi)禮(li)節。原則上是邀請朋友(you)的女伴共舞(wu)(wu)，不(bu)認識者(zhe)最(zui)好(hao)不(bu)要(yao)貿然邀請。

　　9.公共場(chang)合講手機，聲音放低，不干擾別(bie)人。

社交禮儀常識2

　　一、交往禮儀

　　為了(le)獲(huo)得更好(hao)的(de)(de)交往效果，我(wo)們(men)要注(zhu)意(yi)哪些禮儀禁忌呢?1.不要言而無信。言而無信，只是(shi)圖了(le)一(yi)時的(de)(de)方(fang)(fang)便和(he)嘴(zui)上的(de)(de)痛快。長遠(yuan)地說(shuo)，失去(qu)了(le)別人的(de)(de)信任，就失去(qu)了(le)最大(da)的(de)(de)資本(ben)。2.不要惡(e)語傷(shang)人。當對(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)脾氣一(yi)觸即發(fa)時，要臨時回(hui)避(bi)，使對(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)找不到發(fa)泄對(dui)(dui)象(xiang)，并逐步(bu)消火。回(hui)避(bi)并不等于“妥協”，而是(shi)給對(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)冷(leng)靜(jing)思考的(de)(de)機會，同時也證明了(le)自(zi)身的(de)(de)修(xiu)養。3.及(ji)時溝通，消除彼此的(de)(de)矛盾(dun)(dun)。惡(e)語很難避(bi)免(mian)。最好(hao)的(de)(de)是(shi)在事情發(fa)生之(zhi)前或產(chan)生苗頭(tou)之(zhi)后，雙方(fang)(fang)坐下來進行冷(leng)靜(jing)的(de)(de)交流，借以(yi)消除雙方(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)誤(wu)解(jie)或矛盾(dun)(dun)，避(bi)免(mian)惡(e)語的(de)(de)出現。4.不要隨便發(fa)怒。

　　醫(yi)學認為，發怒時容(rong)易傷(shang)及自(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)肝脾(pi)，易發怒的(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)平均壽命(ming)明顯低于(yu)正(zheng)常的(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)，更(geng)容(rong)易衰老，而且還會(hui)(hui)傷(shang)了彼(bi)此的(de)(de)和氣。所以，遇事(shi)要(yao)冷靜思(si)考(kao)，學會(hui)(hui)“換(huan)位”思(si)想，冷靜地(di)站在對方的(de)(de)角(jiao)度(du)(du)考(kao)慮考(kao)慮。5.不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)流言蜚語。在背后流言蜚語的(de)(de)做法(fa)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)僅會(hui)(hui)傷(shang)害朋(peng)友或(huo)同(tong)事(shi)間的(de)(de)情(qing)誼，甚(shen)至(zhi)會(hui)(hui)造(zao)成反目成仇的(de)(de)后果。同(tong)時也(ye)反映出(chu)低下(xia)的(de)(de)品格。所以要(yao)做到(dao)：不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)干涉(she)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)隱私，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)傳播(bo)小道消(xiao)息，對別(bie)人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)過失不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)幸(xing)災樂禍。6.不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)開(kai)(kai)過分的(de)(de)玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)。開(kai)(kai)玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)是(shi)(shi)常有的(de)(de)事(shi)，但要(yao)適(shi)度(du)(du)。我們可(ke)以從(cong)幾個方面來把握：性(xing)格開(kai)(kai)朗、大度(du)(du)的(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)，稍多(duo)一點玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)，可(ke)以使氣氛更(geng)加活(huo)(huo)躍。拘謹的(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)，少開(kai)(kai)甚(shen)至(zhi)是(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)開(kai)(kai)玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)。異性(xing)，特別(bie)是(shi)(shi)對于(yu)女(nv)性(xing)，開(kai)(kai)玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)一定要(yao)適(shi)當。不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)拿別(bie)人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)姓名(ming)開(kai)(kai)玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)或(huo)是(shi)(shi)亂(luan)起糾號(hao)、亂(luan)叫綽號(hao)。尊(zun)長、領(ling)導，開(kai)(kai)玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)一定要(yao)在保(bao)持(chi)住對方的(de)(de)尊(zun)嚴的(de)(de)基礎上。在一些(xie)悲(bei)哀(ai)、不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)幸(xing)的(de)(de)氣氛中或(huo)是(shi)(shi)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)正(zheng)專(zhuan)心致志的(de)(de)場合或(huo)莊重(zhong)的(de)(de)集會(hui)(hui)、重(zhong)大的(de)(de)社會(hui)(hui)活(huo)(huo)動中，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)開(kai)(kai)玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)。既使開(kai)(kai)玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)，也(ye)要(yao)注意內容(rong)健康、幽默、高雅。不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)拿別(bie)人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)缺(que)陷(xian)玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)開(kai)(kai)庸(yong)俗、下(xia)流的(de)(de)玩(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)(wan)笑(xiao)(xiao)。

　　二.拜訪禮儀

　　拜(bai)訪是一(yi)件經常性的(de)(de)(de)工作，那么怎樣(yang)讓拜(bai)訪做(zuo)得更得體、更具效果(guo)，是必須考慮的(de)(de)(de)事情。1.拜(bai)訪前要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)事先和(he)(he)(he)對(dui)方約定(ding)(ding)，以免撲空或擾亂主人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)計劃。拜(bai)訪時(shi)(shi)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)準(zhun)時(shi)(shi)赴約，時(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)長短(duan)(duan)應(ying)(ying)根據拜(bai)訪目的(de)(de)(de)和(he)(he)(he)主人(ren)(ren)意(yi)(yi)愿而(er)定(ding)(ding)，通(tong)常宜短(duan)(duan)不(bu)(bu)宜長。2.如果(guo)接(jie)待(dai)(dai)者(zhe)因故不(bu)(bu)能(neng)馬上接(jie)待(dai)(dai)，可(ke)以在接(jie)待(dai)(dai)人(ren)(ren)員的(de)(de)(de)安(an)排下在會(hui)客(ke)(ke)廳、會(hui)議室或在前臺，安(an)靜地(di)(di)等(deng)候。如果(guo)接(jie)待(dai)(dai)人(ren)(ren)員沒有(you)(you)(you)說(shuo)“請隨便(bian)參觀(guan)參觀(guan)”之(zhi)類的(de)(de)(de)話，而(er)隨便(bian)地(di)(di)東張西望，甚至伸(shen)著脖子(zi)好奇(qi)地(di)(di)往(wang)房間(jian)(jian)里“窺探(tan)”，都是非常失(shi)禮(li)的(de)(de)(de)。3.有(you)(you)(you)抽煙習慣(guan)的(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)注意(yi)(yi)觀(guan)察周圍(wei)有(you)(you)(you)沒有(you)(you)(you)禁止(zhi)(zhi)吸煙的(de)(de)(de)警(jing)示。即(ji)使沒有(you)(you)(you)，也(ye)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)問問工作人(ren)(ren)員是否介(jie)意(yi)(yi)抽煙。如果(guo)等(deng)待(dai)(dai)時(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)過久(jiu)，可(ke)以向有(you)(you)(you)關人(ren)(ren)員說(shuo)明，并另(ling)定(ding)(ding)時(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)，不(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)顯現出不(bu)(bu)耐煩的(de)(de)(de)樣(yang)子(zi)。4.既使和(he)(he)(he)接(jie)待(dai)(dai)者(zhe)的(de)(de)(de)意(yi)(yi)見不(bu)(bu)一(yi)致，也(ye)不(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)爭(zheng)論(lun)不(bu)(bu)休。對(dui)接(jie)待(dai)(dai)者(zhe)提(ti)供(gong)的(de)(de)(de)幫助要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)適(shi)當地(di)(di)致以謝意(yi)(yi)。要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)注意(yi)(yi)觀(guan)察接(jie)待(dai)(dai)者(zhe)的(de)(de)(de)舉(ju)止(zhi)(zhi)表(biao)情，適(shi)可(ke)而(er)止(zhi)(zhi)。當接(jie)待(dai)(dai)者(zhe)有(you)(you)(you)不(bu)(bu)耐煩或有(you)(you)(you)為(wei)難(nan)的(de)(de)(de)表(biao)現時(shi)(shi)，應(ying)(ying)轉換(huan)話題或口氣(qi);當接(jie)待(dai)(dai)者(zhe)有(you)(you)(you)結束會(hui)見的(de)(de)(de)表(biao)示時(shi)(shi)，應(ying)(ying)識趣地(di)(di)立(li)即(ji)起身(shen)告辭(ci)。5.到達(da)(da)被訪人(ren)(ren)所在地(di)(di)時(shi)(shi)，一(yi)定(ding)(ding)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)用手輕(qing)輕(qing)敲(qiao)門，進屋(wu)后(hou)等(deng)主人(ren)(ren)安(an)排后(hou)坐下。后(hou)來(lai)(lai)的(de)(de)(de)客(ke)(ke)人(ren)(ren)到達(da)(da)時(shi)(shi)，先到的(de)(de)(de)客(ke)(ke)人(ren)(ren)可(ke)以站起來(lai)(lai)，等(deng)待(dai)(dai)介(jie)紹或點頭(tou)示意(yi)(yi)。6.拜(bai)訪時(shi)(shi)應(ying)(ying)彬彬有(you)(you)(you)禮(li)，注意(yi)(yi)一(yi)般(ban)交往(wang)細(xi)節。告辭(ci)時(shi)(shi)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)同主人(ren)(ren)和(he)(he)(he)其他客(ke)(ke)人(ren)(ren)一(yi)一(yi)告別，說(shuo)“再見”、“謝謝”;主人(ren)(ren)相(xiang)送時(shi)(shi)，應(ying)(ying)說(shuo)“請回”、“留步(bu)”、“再見”。

　　三.稱呼禮儀

　　1.正確、適當的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)。它不(bu)僅反映著自身(shen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)教養(yang)、對(dui)(dui)對(dui)(dui)方尊重(zhong)(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)程度，甚(shen)至還(huan)體現著雙方關系達(da)到(dao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)程度和社(she)會(hui)風尚。務(wu)必注(zhu)意：一(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)要(yao)合乎常(chang)規(gui)，二是(shi)(shi)(shi)要(yao)入鄉隨俗這兩(liang)點。另(ling)外(wai)，還(huan)應對(dui)(dui)生(sheng)活中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)、工(gong)作(zuo)中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)、外(wai)交中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)、稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)禁忌細心(xin)掌(zhang)握，認真區別。生(sheng)活中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)應當親(qin)切、自然、準確、合理。在(zai)(zai)工(gong)作(zuo)崗(gang)位上(shang)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)彼此(ci)之間的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)有(you)特殊性的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，要(yao)求莊重(zhong)(zhong)、正式(shi)、規(gui)范。以交往(wang)對(dui)(dui)象的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)職(zhi)務(wu)、職(zhi)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)相(xiang)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)，這是(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)種最常(chang)見(jian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)方法(fa)。比如(ru)張經理、李局長。國(guo)(guo)際交往(wang)中(zhong)，因(yin)為國(guo)(guo)情、民族(zu)、宗教、文化(hua)背景的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)不(bu)同(tong)，稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)就顯得(de)千(qian)差萬(wan)別。一(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)要(yao)掌(zhang)握一(yi)(yi)般性規(gui)律，二是(shi)(shi)(shi)要(yao)注(zhu)意國(guo)(guo)別差異。在(zai)(zai)政(zheng)務(wu)交往(wang)中(zhong)，常(chang)見(jian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)除“先(xian)生(sheng)”、“小(xiao)姐”、“女士(shi)”外(wai)，還(huan)有(you)兩(liang)種方法(fa)，一(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)職(zhi)務(wu)(對(dui)(dui)軍界人(ren)(ren)(ren)士(shi)，可以以軍銜相(xiang)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng))，二是(shi)(shi)(shi)對(dui)(dui)地位較高的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)“閣下”。教授、法(fa)官、律師、醫(yi)生(sheng)、博士(shi)，因(yin)為他(ta)們(men)在(zai)(zai)社(she)會(hui)中(zhong)很(hen)受(shou)尊重(zhong)(zhong)，可以直接作(zuo)為稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)。在(zai)(zai)英(ying)國(guo)(guo)、美國(guo)(guo)、加(jia)拿(na)大、澳大利(li)亞、新西(xi)蘭等講英(ying)語的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)國(guo)(guo)家里(li)，姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)名(ming)一(yi)(yi)般有(you)兩(liang)個部(bu)分(fen)構成，通常(chang)名(ming)字在(zai)(zai)前(qian)，姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)氏在(zai)(zai)后(hou)。對(dui)(dui)于(yu)關系密(mi)切的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，不(bu)論輩(bei)份可以直呼(hu)(hu)(hu)其名(ming)而不(bu)稱(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。比如(ru)：俄羅斯(si)人(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)名(ming)有(you)本(ben)(ben)名(ming)，父名(ming)和姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)氏三個部(bu)分(fen)。婦女的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)名(ming)婚前(qian)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，婚后(hou)用(yong)(yong)夫姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，本(ben)(ben)名(ming)和父名(ming)通常(chang)不(bu)變。日(ri)本(ben)(ben)人(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)名(ming)排列和我們(men)一(yi)(yi)樣，不(bu)同(tong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)名(ming)字數較多。日(ri)本(ben)(ben)婦女婚前(qian)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，婚后(hou)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)夫姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，本(ben)(ben)名(ming)不(bu)變。

　　2.稱呼的五個禁忌

　　我(wo)們(men)(men)在使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)時(shi)(shi)，一(yi)定(ding)(ding)要(yao)避免(mian)(mian)下面幾種失(shi)敬的(de)(de)(de)(de)做法。1)錯(cuo)(cuo)誤(wu)(wu)(wu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)。常(chang)見的(de)(de)(de)(de)錯(cuo)(cuo)誤(wu)(wu)(wu)稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)無非(fei)就(jiu)(jiu)是誤(wu)(wu)(wu)讀或(huo)是誤(wu)(wu)(wu)會。誤(wu)(wu)(wu)讀也就(jiu)(jiu)是念(nian)錯(cuo)(cuo)姓(xing)(xing)名(ming)。為(wei)了避免(mian)(mian)這種情況的(de)(de)(de)(de)發生(sheng)，對(dui)(dui)于不(bu)認識的(de)(de)(de)(de)字，事先(xian)要(yao)有(you)所(suo)準(zhun)備;如(ru)(ru)(ru)果是臨(lin)時(shi)(shi)遇到，就(jiu)(jiu)要(yao)謙虛請教。誤(wu)(wu)(wu)會，主要(yao)是對(dui)(dui)被(bei)稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)年紀、輩份、婚否(fou)以及與其他人的(de)(de)(de)(de)關(guan)(guan)系作出了錯(cuo)(cuo)誤(wu)(wu)(wu)判斷。比(bi)如(ru)(ru)(ru)，將(jiang)未婚婦女(nv)稱(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)“夫人”，就(jiu)(jiu)屬于誤(wu)(wu)(wu)會。相對(dui)(dui)年輕的(de)(de)(de)(de)女(nv)性，都可(ke)(ke)以稱(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)“小姐”，這樣對(dui)(dui)方(fang)也樂意聽(ting)。2)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)不(bu)通(tong)行的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)。有(you)些稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)，具(ju)有(you)一(yi)定(ding)(ding)的(de)(de)(de)(de)地域性，比(bi)如(ru)(ru)(ru)山(shan)東人喜(xi)歡(huan)稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)“伙計(ji)”，但南(nan)方(fang)人聽(ting)來“伙計(ji)”肯定(ding)(ding)是“打工(gong)仔”。中(zhong)國(guo)人把配偶(ou)經(jing)常(chang)稱(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)“愛人”，在外(wai)(wai)國(guo)人的(de)(de)(de)(de)意識里(li)，“愛人”是“第三者(zhe)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)意思。3)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)不(bu)當的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)。工(gong)人可(ke)(ke)以稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)為(wei)“師(shi)傅”，道士、和尚、尼姑可(ke)(ke)以稱(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)“出家人”。但如(ru)(ru)(ru)果用(yong)(yong)(yong)這些來稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)其他人，沒準(zhun)還會讓(rang)對(dui)(dui)方(fang)產生(sheng)自(zi)己被(bei)貶低的(de)(de)(de)(de)感(gan)覺。4)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)庸(yong)俗(su)的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)。有(you)些稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)在正式場合(he)不(bu)適合(he)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)。例(li)如(ru)(ru)(ru)，“兄弟”、“哥們(men)(men)兒”等(deng)一(yi)類的(de)(de)(de)(de)稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)，雖然(ran)聽(ting)起來親切，但顯得檔次(ci)不(bu)高。5)稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)外(wai)(wai)號。對(dui)(dui)于關(guan)(guan)系一(yi)般的(de)(de)(de)(de)，不(bu)要(yao)自(zi)作主張給(gei)對(dui)(dui)方(fang)起外(wai)(wai)號，更不(bu)能(neng)用(yong)(yong)(yong)道聽(ting)途說來的(de)(de)(de)(de)外(wai)(wai)號去稱(cheng)(cheng)呼(hu)(hu)(hu)對(dui)(dui)方(fang)。也不(bu)能(neng)隨便(bian)拿別人的(de)(de)(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)名(ming)亂開玩(wan)笑。

　　四.介紹禮儀

　　“第一印象是黃金”。介(jie)紹禮(li)儀是禮(li)儀中的基本(ben)、也是很重(zhong)要的內(nei)容。介(jie)紹是人(ren)(ren)(ren)與人(ren)(ren)(ren)進行(xing)相互溝通的出(chu)發點(dian)，最突出(chu)的作用，就是縮(suo)短(duan)人(ren)(ren)(ren)與人(ren)(ren)(ren)之間的距(ju)離(li)。在(zai)社交或商(shang)務場合，如能正確(que)地利用介(jie)紹，不(bu)僅可以擴大自己的交際圈，廣交朋友，而且(qie)有助于進行(xing)必要的自我展示、自我宣傳，并且(qie)替自己在(zai)人(ren)(ren)(ren)際交往中消除誤會(hui)，減少麻(ma)煩。

　　介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)有(you)多種方(fang)(fang)式。1.介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)自(zi)己(ji)。在(zai)社交活動中，如(ru)果(guo)想結識(shi)某個人(ren)(ren)(ren)或某些人(ren)(ren)(ren)，而(er)又沒有(you)人(ren)(ren)(ren)引見，可以(yi)(yi)(yi)自(zi)己(ji)充當(dang)(dang)自(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)人(ren)(ren)(ren)，把(ba)自(zi)己(ji)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)給對(dui)方(fang)(fang)。確(que)定自(zi)我介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)具(ju)體內容(rong)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)兼(jian)顧實(shi)際需要(yao)(yao)(yao)、所處場景，要(yao)(yao)(yao)具(ju)有(you)鮮明(ming)(ming)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)針對(dui)性，不(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)“千人(ren)(ren)(ren)一面(mian)”。有(you)時(shi)可以(yi)(yi)(yi)把(ba)自(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)姓名同(tong)名人(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)姓氏(shi)或是(shi)(shi)常用(yong)名詞相結合，以(yi)(yi)(yi)增強別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)記憶。比(bi)如(ru)，姓名是(shi)(shi)“周英”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，就(jiu)可以(yi)(yi)(yi)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)為：周總理的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“周”，英雄(xiong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“英”。但如(ru)果(guo)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)人(ren)(ren)(ren)在(zai)場，自(zi)我介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)會被(bei)(bei)認(ren)為是(shi)(shi)不(bu)禮(li)貌的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。2.介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)。在(zai)為他人(ren)(ren)(ren)做介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)時(shi)，可以(yi)(yi)(yi)遵循這樣的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)順序：把(ba)年(nian)輕(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)給年(nian)長的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de);把(ba)職(zhi)(zhi)務(wu)(wu)低的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)給職(zhi)(zhi)務(wu)(wu)高(gao)(gao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。如(ru)果(guo)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)對(dui)象雙方(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)年(nian)齡(ling)、職(zhi)(zhi)務(wu)(wu)相當(dang)(dang)，異性就(jiu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)遵從(cong)“女(nv)士優先”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)原(yuan)則，即把(ba)男士介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)給女(nv)士;對(dui)于(yu)同(tong)性，可以(yi)(yi)(yi)根據實(shi)際情(qing)況(kuang)靈活掌(zhang)握，比(bi)如(ru)把(ba)和你(ni)熟悉的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)給和你(ni)不(bu)熟悉的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de);介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)雙方(fang)(fang)職(zhi)(zhi)務(wu)(wu)有(you)高(gao)(gao)有(you)低的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)候，就(jiu)把(ba)職(zhi)(zhi)務(wu)(wu)低的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)給職(zhi)(zhi)務(wu)(wu)高(gao)(gao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de);也可以(yi)(yi)(yi)從(cong)左到右或從(cong)右到左的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)等。為別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)之(zhi)前不(bu)僅(jin)要(yao)(yao)(yao)征(zheng)求一下被(bei)(bei)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)雙方(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)意見，在(zai)開始介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)時(shi)再打(da)一下招呼(hu)，不(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)上去開口(kou)即講，讓(rang)被(bei)(bei)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)者(zhe)措手不(bu)及。當(dang)(dang)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)者(zhe)詢問是(shi)(shi)不(bu)是(shi)(shi)要(yao)(yao)(yao)有(you)意認(ren)識(shi)某人(ren)(ren)(ren)時(shi)，不(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)拒絕或扭扭捏捏，而(er)應(ying)欣然表(biao)示接(jie)受(shou)。實(shi)在(zai)不(bu)愿意時(shi)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)委婉(wan)說明(ming)(ming)原(yuan)因(yin)。當(dang)(dang)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)者(zhe)走上前來，開始為你(ni)進行(xing)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)時(shi)，被(bei)(bei)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)者(zhe)雙方(fang)(fang)都應(ying)該(gai)起(qi)身站立(li)，面(mian)含微笑，大大方(fang)(fang)方(fang)(fang)地目視(shi)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)者(zhe)或對(dui)方(fang)(fang)。當(dang)(dang)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)者(zhe)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)完畢后，被(bei)(bei)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)者(zhe)雙方(fang)(fang)應(ying)依照合乎禮(li)儀(yi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)順序進行(xing)握手，彼(bi)此(ci)問候一下對(dui)方(fang)(fang)，也可以(yi)(yi)(yi)互遞(di)名片，作為聯(lian)絡方(fang)(fang)式。不(bu)論是(shi)(shi)給別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)做介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)還是(shi)(shi)自(zi)我介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)，被(bei)(bei)介(jie)(jie)(jie)紹(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)(shao)雙方(fang)(fang)態度都應(ying)謙和、友好、不(bu)卑不(bu)亢，切忌(ji)傲慢無禮(li)或畏(wei)畏(wei)縮縮。

　　五.握手禮儀

　　握手(shou)，是交(jiao)際(ji)的(de)(de)一個(ge)部分。握手(shou)的(de)(de)力量、姿勢(shi)和時間的(de)(de)長短往往能夠表達出對握手(shou)對象的(de)(de)不同禮遇和態度(du)，顯露自己的(de)(de)個(ge)性(xing)，給人(ren)留下不同印象，也可(ke)通過握手(shou)了解對方的(de)(de)個(ge)性(xing)，從而(er)贏得交(jiao)際(ji)的(de)(de)主(zhu)動。美國著名盲聾(long)女(nv)作(zuo)家海倫凱勒說：我接觸(chu)的(de)(de)手(shou)有(you)能拒人(ren)千(qian)里之外;也有(you)些人(ren)的(de)(de)手(shou)充滿陽光，你會感到很溫暖……

　　1.握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)(de)(de)要(yao)(yao)求。通常(chang)，和人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)初(chu)次(ci)(ci)見面，熟人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)久別重逢，告辭或(huo)送行(xing)都(dou)可(ke)以(yi)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)表示(shi)(shi)(shi)自己的(de)(de)(de)(de)善(shan)意(yi)(yi)也(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)最(zui)(zui)(zui)常(chang)見的(de)(de)(de)(de)。有些(xie)(xie)特(te)(te)殊(shu)場(chang)合，比(bi)如(ru)(ru)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)表示(shi)(shi)(shi)祝賀，感謝或(huo)慰問(wen)時(shi);雙(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)交談中出(chu)現了令人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)滿(man)意(yi)(yi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)共同點(dian)(dian)時(shi);或(huo)雙(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)原(yuan)先(xian)(xian)(xian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)矛盾出(chu)現了某種(zhong)良好(hao)(hao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)轉機或(huo)徹底和解(jie)時(shi)習慣上(shang)(shang)也(ye)(ye)(ye)以(yi)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)為禮。握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)，距對(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)約一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)步遠(yuan)，上(shang)(shang)身(shen)稍向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)前傾(qing)，兩足立(li)正，伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)出(chu)右手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，四指并攏，虎口相交，拇指張開(kai)下(xia)(xia)滑(hua)，向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)受(shou)禮者(zhe)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)。掌心(xin)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)下(xia)(xia)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)住對(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，顯(xian)示(shi)(shi)(shi)著(zhu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)強(qiang)(qiang)烈的(de)(de)(de)(de)支配欲，無聲地(di)(di)告訴別人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，他處(chu)于高人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)等的(de)(de)(de)(de)地(di)(di)位。應(ying)盡量避免這種(zhong)傲慢(man)無禮的(de)(de)(de)(de)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)方(fang)(fang)(fang)式(shi)。相反，掌心(xin)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)里握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)顯(xian)示(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)謙卑與畢恭(gong)畢敬，如(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)出(chu)雙(shuang)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，更是(shi)(shi)(shi)謙恭(gong)備(bei)至了。平等而(er)(er)(er)自然(ran)的(de)(de)(de)(de)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)姿態是(shi)(shi)(shi)兩手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)掌都(dou)處(chu)于垂(chui)直狀態。這是(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)最(zui)(zui)(zui)普通也(ye)(ye)(ye)最(zui)(zui)(zui)穩妥的(de)(de)(de)(de)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)方(fang)(fang)(fang)式(shi)。戴(dai)著(zhu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)套握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)是(shi)(shi)(shi)失禮行(xing)為，女士可(ke)以(yi)例外(wai)。當(dang)然(ran)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)嚴寒(han)的(de)(de)(de)(de)室外(wai)也(ye)(ye)(ye)可(ke)以(yi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)脫。比(bi)如(ru)(ru)雙(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)都(dou)戴(dai)著(zhu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)套，帽子，這時(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般也(ye)(ye)(ye)應(ying)先(xian)(xian)(xian)說(shuo)聲：“對(dui)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)起”。握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)雙(shuang)方(fang)(fang)(fang)互相注(zhu)視，微(wei)笑(xiao)，問(wen)候，致(zhi)意(yi)(yi)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)看(kan)第三者(zhe)或(huo)顯(xian)得心(xin)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)焉。除(chu)了關(guan)系親近(jin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)可(ke)以(yi)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)久地(di)(di)把手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起外(wai)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)兩三下(xia)(xia)就(jiu)行(xing)。不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)太用力，但漫不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)經心(xin)地(di)(di)用手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)指尖“蜻蜓點(dian)(dian)水(shui)”式(shi)去(qu)點(dian)(dian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)下(xia)(xia)也(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)無禮的(de)(de)(de)(de)。一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般要(yao)(yao)將時(shi)間(jian)(jian)控制(zhi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)三五秒(miao)鐘以(yi)內。如(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)要(yao)(yao)表示(shi)(shi)(shi)自己的(de)(de)(de)(de)真誠和熱烈，也(ye)(ye)(ye)可(ke)較(jiao)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)時(shi)間(jian)(jian)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，并上(shang)(shang)下(xia)(xia)搖晃幾下(xia)(xia)。握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)兩手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)碰就(jiu)分開(kai)，時(shi)間(jian)(jian)過短，好(hao)(hao)像在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)走過場(chang)，又像是(shi)(shi)(shi)對(dui)對(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)懷有戒(jie)意(yi)(yi)。而(er)(er)(er)時(shi)間(jian)(jian)過久，特(te)(te)別是(shi)(shi)(shi)拉住異性(xing)或(huo)初(chu)次(ci)(ci)見面者(zhe)的(de)(de)(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)久不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)放，顯(xian)得有些(xie)(xie)虛(xu)情假義，甚至會被(bei)懷疑為“想(xiang)占便宜”。長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)輩(bei)和晚(wan)輩(bei)之(zhi)(zhi)間(jian)(jian)，長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)輩(bei)伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)后(hou)(hou)(hou)，晚(wan)輩(bei)才(cai)能伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)相握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)，上(shang)(shang)下(xia)(xia)級(ji)之(zhi)(zhi)間(jian)(jian)，上(shang)(shang)級(ji)伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)后(hou)(hou)(hou)，下(xia)(xia)級(ji)才(cai)能接(jie)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo);男(nan)女之(zhi)(zhi)間(jian)(jian)，女方(fang)(fang)(fang)伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)后(hou)(hou)(hou)，男(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)才(cai)能伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)相握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo);當(dang)然(ran)，如(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)男(nan)方(fang)(fang)(fang)為長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)者(zhe)，遵照前面說(shuo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)方(fang)(fang)(fang)法。如(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)需要(yao)(yao)和多人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)要(yao)(yao)講(jiang)究(jiu)先(xian)(xian)(xian)后(hou)(hou)(hou)次(ci)(ci)序(xu)，由尊(zun)而(er)(er)(er)卑，即先(xian)(xian)(xian)年(nian)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)者(zhe)后(hou)(hou)(hou)年(nian)幼者(zhe)，先(xian)(xian)(xian)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)輩(bei)再(zai)晚(wan)輩(bei)，先(xian)(xian)(xian)老師后(hou)(hou)(hou)學生，先(xian)(xian)(xian)女士后(hou)(hou)(hou)男(nan)士，先(xian)(xian)(xian)已婚(hun)者(zhe)后(hou)(hou)(hou)未婚(hun)者(zhe)，先(xian)(xian)(xian)上(shang)(shang)級(ji)后(hou)(hou)(hou)下(xia)(xia)級(ji)。交際時(shi)如(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)數較(jiao)多，可(ke)以(yi)只跟相近(jin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)幾個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)其他人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)點(dian)(dian)頭示(shi)(shi)(shi)意(yi)(yi)，或(huo)微(wei)微(wei)鞠躬就(jiu)行(xing)。為了避免尷尬(ga)場(chang)面發(fa)生，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)主(zhu)動和人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)之(zhi)(zhi)前，應(ying)想(xiang)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)想(xiang)自己是(shi)(shi)(shi)否受(shou)對(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)歡迎(ying)，如(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)已察覺對(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)沒(mei)有要(yao)(yao)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)(de)(de)意(yi)(yi)思，點(dian)(dian)頭致(zhi)意(yi)(yi)就(jiu)行(xing)了。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)公務場(chang)合，握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)(de)(de)先(xian)(xian)(xian)后(hou)(hou)(hou)次(ci)(ci)序(xu)主(zhu)要(yao)(yao)取(qu)決于職(zhi)位、身(shen)份(fen)。而(er)(er)(er)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)社交、休閑(xian)場(chang)合，它(ta)主(zhu)要(yao)(yao)取(qu)決于年(nian)齡(ling)、性(xing)別、婚(hun)否。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)接(jie)待來訪者(zhe)時(shi)，這一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)問(wen)題(ti)變得特(te)(te)殊(shu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)些(xie)(xie)：當(dang)客(ke)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)抵達(da)時(shi)，應(ying)由主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)首(shou)先(xian)(xian)(xian)伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)出(chu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)來與客(ke)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)相握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)。而(er)(er)(er)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)客(ke)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)告辭時(shi)，就(jiu)應(ying)由客(ke)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)首(shou)先(xian)(xian)(xian)伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)出(chu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)來與主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)相握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)。前者(zhe)是(shi)(shi)(shi)表示(shi)(shi)(shi)“歡迎(ying)”，后(hou)(hou)(hou)者(zhe)就(jiu)表示(shi)(shi)(shi)“再(zai)見”。這一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)次(ci)(ci)序(xu)顛(dian)倒，很(hen)容易讓人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)發(fa)生誤解(jie)。應(ying)當(dang)強(qiang)(qiang)調的(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)，上(shang)(shang)述握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)先(xian)(xian)(xian)后(hou)(hou)(hou)次(ci)(ci)序(xu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)必處(chu)處(chu)苛求于人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。如(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)(guo)自己是(shi)(shi)(shi)尊(zun)者(zhe)或(huo)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)者(zhe)、上(shang)(shang)級(ji)。而(er)(er)(er)位卑者(zhe)、年(nian)輕者(zhe)或(huo)下(xia)(xia)級(ji)搶先(xian)(xian)(xian)伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)，最(zui)(zui)(zui)得體的(de)(de)(de)(de)就(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)立(li)即伸(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)(shen)出(chu)自己的(de)(de)(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，進行(xing)配合。而(er)(er)(er)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)置之(zhi)(zhi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)理，使對(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)當(dang)場(chang)出(chu)丑。當(dang)你在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)妨(fang)說(shuo)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)些(xie)(xie)問(wen)候的(de)(de)(de)(de)話，可(ke)以(yi)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)緊對(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，語氣應(ying)直接(jie)而(er)(er)(er)且(qie)肯定，并在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)加(jia)強(qiang)(qiang)重要(yao)(yao)字眼時(shi)，緊握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)著(zhu)對(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，來加(jia)強(qiang)(qiang)對(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)對(dui)你的(de)(de)(de)(de)印象。

　　2.應當握(wo)手(shou)的(de)(de)場合(he)：遇到較(jiao)長時(shi)間沒見面(mian)的(de)(de)熟人(ren)(ren)(ren);在(zai)比(bi)較(jiao)正(zheng)式的(de)(de)場合(he)和認識的(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)道別(bie);在(zai)以本人(ren)(ren)(ren)作為東道主的(de)(de)社交(jiao)場合(he)，迎接或(huo)(huo)(huo)送別(bie)來訪(fang)者(zhe)時(shi);拜訪(fang)他人(ren)(ren)(ren)后(hou)，在(zai)辭(ci)行的(de)(de)時(shi)候;被介紹給不認識的(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)時(shi);在(zai)社交(jiao)場合(he)，偶然(ran)遇上親朋(peng)故舊或(huo)(huo)(huo)上司(si)的(de)(de)時(shi)候;別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)給予(yu)你一定(ding)的(de)(de)支持、鼓(gu)勵或(huo)(huo)(huo)幫助時(shi);表(biao)(biao)示(shi)感謝、恭喜、祝賀時(shi);對別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)表(biao)(biao)示(shi)理(li)解、支持、肯(ken)定(ding)時(shi);得知(zhi)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)患病、失戀、失業、降職或(huo)(huo)(huo)遭受其他挫折時(shi);向(xiang)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)贈送禮品(pin)或(huo)(huo)(huo)頒發獎品(pin)時(shi)。

　　3.握(wo)手的八禁(jin)(jin)忌。我們(men)在(zai)行握(wo)手禮時應努力(li)做到合乎規(gui)范，避免(mian)違犯(fan)下(xia)述失禮的禁(jin)(jin)忌。

　　1)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)用左手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)相(xiang)握(wo)(wo)，尤其是(shi)和(he)阿拉伯(bo)人(ren)、印度(du)人(ren)打交道時(shi)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)牢(lao)記，因(yin)為在(zai)(zai)他(ta)們看來左手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)是(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)干(gan)凈的(de)。2)在(zai)(zai)和(he)基督(du)教信徒交往時(shi)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)避(bi)免(mian)兩人(ren)握(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)與(yu)(yu)另外(wai)兩人(ren)相(xiang)握(wo)(wo)的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)形成交叉(cha)狀，這種形狀類似(si)十字架，在(zai)(zai)他(ta)們眼里這是(shi)很不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)吉利的(de)。3)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)在(zai)(zai)握(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)戴(dai)著手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)套(tao)或墨鏡，只有女士在(zai)(zai)社交場(chang)合戴(dai)著薄紗手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)套(tao)握(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，才是(shi)被允許的(de)。4)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)在(zai)(zai)握(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)另外(wai)一(yi)只手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)插在(zai)(zai)衣袋里或拿著東西(xi)。5)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)在(zai)(zai)握(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)面無表情、不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)置一(yi)詞或長篇大論、點(dian)頭哈腰，過分客(ke)套(tao)。6)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)在(zai)(zai)握(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)僅(jin)僅(jin)握(wo)(wo)住對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)指尖，好像有意與(yu)(yu)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)保持距(ju)離。正確的(de)做(zuo)法，是(shi)握(wo)(wo)住整個手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)掌。即使對(dui)(dui)(dui)異性也(ye)應(ying)這樣。7)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)在(zai)(zai)握(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)把(ba)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)拉過來、推過去，或者(zhe)上下(xia)左右抖個沒完。8)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)拒絕握(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，即使有手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)疾或汗(han)濕、弄臟了，也(ye)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)和(he)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)說(shuo)一(yi)下(xia)“對(dui)(dui)(dui)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)起，我(wo)的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)現在(zai)(zai)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)方(fang)便”。以免(mian)造成不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)必(bi)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)的(de)誤會。

　　六.其他會面禮

　　在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)國(guo)內外(wai)(wai)(wai)交往中，除握手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)之(zhi)(zhi)外(wai)(wai)(wai)，以(yi)(yi)下(xia)(xia)會(hui)(hui)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)也常見(jian)(jian)。1.點(dian)(dian)(dian)頭(tou)(tou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，又叫頷首禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，它(ta)所(suo)(suo)適(shi)(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)情況(kuang)主(zhu)要(yao)(yao)有(you)：遇到熟(shu)人(ren)(ren)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)會(hui)(hui)場(chang)、劇院、歌(ge)廳、舞廳等(deng)不宜交談(tan)之(zhi)(zhi)處(chu)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)同(tong)(tong)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)場(chang)合(he)(he)(he)碰上(shang)已(yi)多(duo)次(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)見(jian)(jian)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)者(zhe)(zhe)，遇上(shang)多(duo)人(ren)(ren)而(er)又無法(fa)(fa)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)問(wen)(wen)候(hou)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)點(dian)(dian)(dian)頭(tou)(tou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)時(shi)(shi)，應(ying)(ying)該不戴帽子(zi)。具(ju)體(ti)(ti)做(zuo)(zuo)法(fa)(fa)是(shi)(shi)(shi)頭(tou)(tou)部(bu)(bu)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)下(xia)(xia)輕(qing)(qing)輕(qing)(qing)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)點(dian)(dian)(dian)，同(tong)(tong)時(shi)(shi)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)帶笑容(rong)，不要(yao)(yao)反(fan)復點(dian)(dian)(dian)頭(tou)(tou)不止，也不必(bi)點(dian)(dian)(dian)頭(tou)(tou)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)幅度(du)(du)過(guo)大(da)。2.舉(ju)(ju)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)舉(ju)(ju)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)場(chang)合(he)(he)(he)，和行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)點(dian)(dian)(dian)頭(tou)(tou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)場(chang)合(he)(he)(he)大(da)致相(xiang)似，它(ta)最(zui)適(shi)(shi)(shi)合(he)(he)(he)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)距離較(jiao)遠的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)熟(shu)人(ren)(ren)打(da)招呼。行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)舉(ju)(ju)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)做(zuo)(zuo)法(fa)(fa)是(shi)(shi)(shi)：右(you)(you)(you)臂向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)前(qian)(qian)方(fang)(fang)伸直，右(you)(you)(you)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)掌(zhang)(zhang)(zhang)心向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)著對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)，其(qi)他(ta)四指(zhi)并齊、拇(mu)指(zhi)叉開(kai)，輕(qing)(qing)輕(qing)(qing)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)左(zuo)右(you)(you)(you)擺(bai)動(dong)(dong)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)兩(liang)下(xia)(xia)。手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)不要(yao)(yao)上(shang)下(xia)(xia)擺(bai)動(dong)(dong)，也不要(yao)(yao)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)部(bu)(bu)擺(bai)動(dong)(dong)時(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)背(bei)朝向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)。3.脫(tuo)(tuo)帽禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。戴著帽子(zi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)進(jin)入他(ta)人(ren)(ren)居(ju)所(suo)(suo)，路遇熟(shu)人(ren)(ren)，與(yu)人(ren)(ren)交談(tan)、握手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)或(huo)(huo)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)其(qi)他(ta)會(hui)(hui)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，進(jin)入娛樂(le)場(chang)所(suo)(suo)，升掛(gua)國(guo)旗，演奏(zou)國(guo)歌(ge)等(deng)情況(kuang)下(xia)(xia)，要(yao)(yao)主(zhu)動(dong)(dong)地(di)摘下(xia)(xia)自(zi)己的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)帽子(zi)。女(nv)士(shi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)社交場(chang)合(he)(he)(he)可以(yi)(yi)不脫(tuo)(tuo)帽子(zi)。4.注(zhu)目(mu)(mu)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。注(zhu)目(mu)(mu)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)具(ju)體(ti)(ti)做(zuo)(zuo)法(fa)(fa)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)起(qi)(qi)身(shen)立(li)(li)正，抬頭(tou)(tou)挺(ting)胸，雙(shuang)(shuang)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)自(zi)然(ran)下(xia)(xia)垂(chui)或(huo)(huo)貼(tie)放于身(shen)體(ti)(ti)兩(liang)側(ce)(ce)(ce)，笑容(rong)莊重嚴肅(su)，雙(shuang)(shuang)目(mu)(mu)正視(shi)于被行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)對(dui)(dui)(dui)象，或(huo)(huo)隨之(zhi)(zhi)緩緩移動(dong)(dong)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)升國(guo)旗、檢閱、剪彩揭幕(mu)、開(kai)業掛(gua)牌等(deng)情況(kuang)下(xia)(xia)，適(shi)(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)注(zhu)目(mu)(mu)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。5.拱(gong)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。拱(gong)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)我國(guo)民間傳統的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)會(hui)(hui)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。現(xian)(xian)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)它(ta)所(suo)(suo)適(shi)(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)情況(kuang)，主(zhu)要(yao)(yao)是(shi)(shi)(shi)過(guo)年時(shi)(shi)舉(ju)(ju)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)團拜活(huo)動(dong)(dong)，向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)長(chang)輩(bei)祝壽，向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)友人(ren)(ren)恭喜(xi)結(jie)婚(hun)(hun)、生子(zi)、晉(jin)升、喬遷，向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)親朋好友表示無比感謝(xie)，以(yi)(yi)及(ji)與(yu)海外(wai)(wai)(wai)華(hua)人(ren)(ren)初次(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)見(jian)(jian)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)時(shi)(shi)表示久仰(yang)大(da)名(ming)。拱(gong)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)方(fang)(fang)式(shi)：起(qi)(qi)身(shen)站立(li)(li)，上(shang)身(shen)挺(ting)直，兩(liang)臂前(qian)(qian)伸，雙(shuang)(shuang)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)胸前(qian)(qian)高(gao)(gao)舉(ju)(ju)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)拳，自(zi)上(shang)而(er)下(xia)(xia)，或(huo)(huo)者(zhe)(zhe)自(zi)內而(er)外(wai)(wai)(wai)，有(you)節奏(zou)地(di)晃動(dong)(dong)兩(liang)下(xia)(xia)。6.鞠(ju)(ju)躬(gong)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。鞠(ju)(ju)躬(gong)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)目(mu)(mu)前(qian)(qian)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)國(guo)內主(zhu)要(yao)(yao)適(shi)(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)于向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)他(ta)人(ren)(ren)表示感謝(xie)、領獎或(huo)(huo)講演之(zhi)(zhi)后(hou)(hou)、演員謝(xie)幕(mu)、舉(ju)(ju)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)婚(hun)(hun)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)或(huo)(huo)參(can)加(jia)追悼活(huo)動(dong)(dong)等(deng)。行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)鞠(ju)(ju)躬(gong)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)時(shi)(shi)，應(ying)(ying)脫(tuo)(tuo)帽立(li)(li)正，雙(shuang)(shuang)目(mu)(mu)凝視(shi)受禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)者(zhe)(zhe)，然(ran)后(hou)(hou)上(shang)身(shen)彎腰(yao)前(qian)(qian)傾。男士(shi)雙(shuang)(shuang)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)應(ying)(ying)貼(tie)放在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)身(shen)體(ti)(ti)兩(liang)側(ce)(ce)(ce)褲線處(chu)，女(nv)士(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)雙(shuang)(shuang)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)下(xia)(xia)垂(chui)搭放在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)腹(fu)前(qian)(qian)。下(xia)(xia)彎的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)幅度(du)(du)越大(da)，所(suo)(suo)表示的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)敬重程度(du)(du)就(jiu)越大(da)。鞠(ju)(ju)躬(gong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)次(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)數，喜(xi)慶(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)場(chang)合(he)(he)(he)下(xia)(xia)，不要(yao)(yao)鞠(ju)(ju)躬(gong)三(san)次(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)。一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般追悼活(huo)動(dong)(dong)時(shi)(shi)才用(yong)(yong)三(san)鞠(ju)(ju)躬(gong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)儀。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)日本(ben)、韓國(guo)、朝鮮，鞠(ju)(ju)躬(gong)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)應(ying)(ying)用(yong)(yong)十(shi)(shi)分(fen)廣泛(fan)。7.合(he)(he)(he)十(shi)(shi)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。合(he)(he)(he)十(shi)(shi)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，就(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)雙(shuang)(shuang)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)十(shi)(shi)指(zhi)相(xiang)合(he)(he)(he)為禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。具(ju)體(ti)(ti)做(zuo)(zuo)法(fa)(fa)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)雙(shuang)(shuang)掌(zhang)(zhang)(zhang)十(shi)(shi)指(zhi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)腑前(qian)(qian)相(xiang)對(dui)(dui)(dui)合(he)(he)(he)，五指(zhi)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)指(zhi)并攏向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)上(shang)，掌(zhang)(zhang)(zhang)尖與(yu)鼻尖基(ji)本(ben)持平，手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)掌(zhang)(zhang)(zhang)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)外(wai)(wai)(wai)側(ce)(ce)(ce)傾斜(xie)，雙(shuang)(shuang)腿立(li)(li)直站立(li)(li)，上(shang)身(shen)微欠低(di)頭(tou)(tou)。行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)時(shi)(shi)，合(he)(he)(he)十(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)雙(shuang)(shuang)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)舉(ju)(ju)得越高(gao)(gao)，越體(ti)(ti)現(xian)(xian)出(chu)對(dui)(dui)(dui)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)尊重，但原則上(shang)不可高(gao)(gao)于額(e)頭(tou)(tou)。行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)合(he)(he)(he)十(shi)(shi)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)時(shi)(shi)，可以(yi)(yi)口頌祝詞或(huo)(huo)問(wen)(wen)候(hou)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)。也可以(yi)(yi)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)含微笑，但不應(ying)(ying)該手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)舞足蹈，反(fan)復點(dian)(dian)(dian)頭(tou)(tou)。 在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)東南(nan)亞、南(nan)亞信(xin)奉(feng)佛教(jiao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)地(di)區(qu)(qu)以(yi)(yi)及(ji)我國(guo)傣族聚居(ju)區(qu)(qu)，合(he)(he)(he)十(shi)(shi)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)普(pu)遍使用(yong)(yong)。8.擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)西方(fang)(fang)，特別是(shi)(shi)(shi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)歐(ou)美國(guo)家，擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)是(shi)(shi)(shi)十(shi)(shi)分(fen)常見(jian)(jian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)見(jian)(jian)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)和道別禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)人(ren)(ren)們(men)表示慰問(wen)(wen)、祝賀、欣喜(xi)時(shi)(shi)，擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)也十(shi)(shi)分(fen)常用(yong)(yong)。正規的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，講究(jiu)兩(liang)人(ren)(ren)正面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)站立(li)(li)，各(ge)(ge)自(zi)舉(ju)(ju)起(qi)(qi)右(you)(you)(you)臂，將右(you)(you)(you)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)搭在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)左(zuo)肩(jian)后(hou)(hou)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian);左(zuo)臂下(xia)(xia)垂(chui)，左(zuo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)扶住對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)右(you)(you)(you)腰(yao)后(hou)(hou)側(ce)(ce)(ce)。首先(xian)各(ge)(ge)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)左(zuo)側(ce)(ce)(ce)擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)。然(ran)后(hou)(hou)各(ge)(ge)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)右(you)(you)(you)側(ce)(ce)(ce)擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)，最(zui)后(hou)(hou)再一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)次(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)各(ge)(ge)向(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)左(zuo)側(ce)(ce)(ce)擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)共擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)3次(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)。普(pu)通場(chang)合(he)(he)(he)不必(bi)這么講究(jiu)，擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)次(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)數一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)下(xia)(xia)、二下(xia)(xia)、三(san)次(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)都行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)我國(guo)，除某些少數民族外(wai)(wai)(wai)，擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)不常采用(yong)(yong)。9.吻(wen)(wen)(wen)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。1)親吻(wen)(wen)(wen)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種西方(fang)(fang)國(guo)家常用(yong)(yong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)會(hui)(hui)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。它(ta)會(hui)(hui)和擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)同(tong)(tong)時(shi)(shi)采用(yong)(yong)，即雙(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)會(hui)(hui)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)時(shi)(shi)既擁(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)抱(bao)(bao)(bao)(bao)、又親吻(wen)(wen)(wen)。行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)親吻(wen)(wen)(wen)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)時(shi)(shi)，通常忌諱發出(chu)親吻(wen)(wen)(wen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)聲音，而(er)且不應(ying)(ying)將唾(tuo)液弄到對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)臉上(shang)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)時(shi)(shi)，雙(shuang)(shuang)方(fang)(fang)關系不同(tong)(tong)，親吻(wen)(wen)(wen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)部(bu)(bu)位也會(hui)(hui)有(you)所(suo)(suo)不同(tong)(tong)。長(chang)輩(bei)吻(wen)(wen)(wen)晚輩(bei)，應(ying)(ying)當吻(wen)(wen)(wen)額(e)頭(tou)(tou);晚輩(bei)吻(wen)(wen)(wen)長(chang)輩(bei)，應(ying)(ying)當吻(wen)(wen)(wen)下(xia)(xia)頜(he)或(huo)(huo)吻(wen)(wen)(wen)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)頰;同(tong)(tong)輩(bei)間，同(tong)(tong)性貼(tie)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)頰，異性吻(wen)(wen)(wen)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)頰。貼(tie)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)頰的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)候(hou)，先(xian)貼(tie)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)次(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)右(you)(you)(you)邊，再貼(tie)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)次(ci)(ci)(ci)(ci)左(zuo)邊。2)吻(wen)(wen)(wen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，主(zhu)要(yao)(yao)流行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)歐(ou)洲國(guo)家。做(zuo)(zuo)法(fa)(fa)是(shi)(shi)(shi)：男士(shi)走(zou)到已(yi)婚(hun)(hun)婦女(nv)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)前(qian)(qian)，首先(xian)垂(chui)首立(li)(li)正致意。然(ran)后(hou)(hou)以(yi)(yi)右(you)(you)(you)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)或(huo)(huo)雙(shuang)(shuang)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)捧起(qi)(qi)女(nv)士(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)右(you)(you)(you)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，俯(fu)首以(yi)(yi)自(zi)己微閉的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)嘴唇(chun)，去象征性地(di)輕(qing)(qing)吻(wen)(wen)(wen)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)下(xia)(xia)其(qi)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)背(bei)或(huo)(huo)是(shi)(shi)(shi)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)指(zhi)。吻(wen)(wen)(wen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)受禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)者(zhe)(zhe)，只能是(shi)(shi)(shi)已(yi)婚(hun)(hun)婦女(nv)。手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)腕及(ji)其(qi)以(yi)(yi)上(shang)部(bu)(bu)位，是(shi)(shi)(shi)行(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)禮(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)時(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)禁區(qu)(qu)。

　　七.用好“第二身份證”

　　名片(pian)(pian)是(shi)(shi)“第二身份(fen)(fen)證”，使用(yong)已經非常普及。它不(bu)(bu)僅是(shi)(shi)自(zi)己身份(fen)(fen)的(de)介(jie)紹，更(geng)是(shi)(shi)自(zi)己的(de)臉面、形象。名片(pian)(pian)總的(de)要(yao)求是(shi)(shi)“整(zheng)潔、有(you)序、明了(le)”。對于職務，不(bu)(bu)應該羅(luo)列過(guo)多、本末倒(dao)置，樣式、顏(yan)色(se)設置上不(bu)(bu)應該過(guo)分夸張。個(ge)人照片(pian)(pian)、企業宣傳口號(hao)、廣告詞是(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)適合印在名片(pian)(pian)上的(de)。

　　1.發(fa)(fa)送(song)(song)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)機(ji)。隨(sui)身所帶的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，最(zui)好(hao)(hao)放(fang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)專用(yong)(yong)(yong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)包(bao)、名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)夾(jia)里，也(ye)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)放(fang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)衣(yi)口(kou)(kou)袋(dai)里。千(qian)萬不要(yao)(yao)(yao)放(fang)到褲袋(dai)、裙兜、提(ti)(ti)包(bao)、錢(qian)夾(jia)里，那樣做(zuo)(zuo)既不正式，又顯得(de)雜亂(luan)(luan)無章。自(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)公文包(bao)、辦公桌(zhuo)抽屜(ti)里，也(ye)要(yao)(yao)(yao)備有(you)(you)(you)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)便(bian)(bian)隨(sui)時(shi)(shi)使用(yong)(yong)(yong)。要(yao)(yao)(yao)適時(shi)(shi)地發(fa)(fa)送(song)(song)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，讓(rang)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)接(jie)(jie)受并(bing)(bing)收(shou)到最(zui)好(hao)(hao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)效果(guo)(guo)，就要(yao)(yao)(yao)注意(yi)：除非(fei)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)要(yao)(yao)(yao)求(qiu)，不然就不要(yao)(yao)(yao)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)年長的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)主(zhu)管(guan)面(mian)(mian)前主(zhu)動出示(shi)(shi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)。不要(yao)(yao)(yao)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)群陌(mo)生(sheng)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)中到處散(san)發(fa)(fa)自(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，這(zhe)會(hui)讓(rang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)誤(wu)會(hui)為(wei)你(ni)(ni)想(xiang)推銷什么東(dong)西(xi)，反(fan)而不受重視。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)商(shang)務社(she)交活動中尤(you)其(qi)(qi)要(yao)(yao)(yao)有(you)(you)(you)選擇地提(ti)(ti)供名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，別(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)才(cai)不會(hui)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)為(wei)你(ni)(ni)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)替公司做(zuo)(zuo)廣告(gao)。出席(xi)重大的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)社(she)交活動，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)定(ding)要(yao)(yao)(yao)記住(zhu)帶名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)總是(shi)(shi)跟(gen)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家說“不好(hao)(hao)意(yi)思，我的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)剛用(yong)(yong)(yong)完”，這(zhe)是(shi)(shi)很(hen)牽(qian)強(qiang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)理由。沒(mei)有(you)(you)(you)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)也(ye)可(ke)(ke)說是(shi)(shi)第一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)步就失敗了(le)。對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)會(hui)認(ren)為(wei)你(ni)(ni)根本不重視他(ta)(ta)(ta)或者是(shi)(shi)你(ni)(ni)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)職業(ye)、身份不值(zhi)得(de)擁有(you)(you)(you)自(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)。要(yao)(yao)(yao)知道，不管(guan)是(shi)(shi)參(can)加私人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)還是(shi)(shi)或商(shang)務餐宴，都(dou)不要(yao)(yao)(yao)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)用(yong)(yong)(yong)餐時(shi)(shi)發(fa)(fa)送(song)(song)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，因為(wei)這(zhe)時(shi)(shi)候只適合從(cong)事(shi)社(she)交而非(fei)商(shang)業(ye)性(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)活動。而且一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)定(ding)要(yao)(yao)(yao)注意(yi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)干凈和完整(zheng)。發(fa)(fa)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)張(zhang)(zhang)臟或損(sun)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，還不如(ru)(ru)(ru)不送(song)(song)。要(yao)(yao)(yao)把它(ta)們(men)(men)整(zheng)齊(qi)地放(fang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)夾(jia)、盒或口(kou)(kou)袋(dai)里，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)免毀損(sun)。發(fa)(fa)送(song)(song)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)剛見面(mian)(mian)或告(gao)別(bie)(bie)時(shi)(shi)，但(dan)如(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)自(zi)(zi)己(ji)即將(jiang)發(fa)(fa)表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)意(yi)見，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)說話之前發(fa)(fa)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)給(gei)周圍的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)幫助他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)認(ren)識你(ni)(ni)。交換名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)候如(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)用(yong)(yong)(yong)完，也(ye)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)干凈的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)紙上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)寫(xie)(xie)(xie)下個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)資料。使用(yong)(yong)(yong)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)最(zui)重要(yao)(yao)(yao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)知道如(ru)(ru)(ru)何(he)建立及展現個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)風(feng)格。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)空白處或背面(mian)(mian)寫(xie)(xie)(xie)下個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)資料，將(jiang)使名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)更為(wei)“個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)化”，例如(ru)(ru)(ru)：送(song)(song)花答(da)謝宴會(hui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)時(shi)(shi)，可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)寫(xie)(xie)(xie)“謝謝您(nin)安排的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)豐盛晚餐，這(zhe)真是(shi)(shi)個(ge)愉快的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)夜晚”等意(yi)思的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)簡(jian)短(duan)文字，然后(hou)(hou)簽上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)。送(song)(song)東(dong)西(xi)給(gei)別(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)后(hou)(hou)加上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)親筆寫(xie)(xie)(xie)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)“希望你(ni)(ni)喜歡它(ta)”。介(jie)紹朋友(you)(you)(you)互相(xiang)認(ren)識時(shi)(shi)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)后(hou)(hou)可(ke)(ke)寫(xie)(xie)(xie)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)朋友(you)(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)簡(jian)歷，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)幫助相(xiang)互了(le)解。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)參(can)加交際應(ying)酬之前，要(yao)(yao)(yao)像(xiang)準備修(xiu)飾化妝一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)樣，提(ti)(ti)前準備好(hao)(hao)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，并(bing)(bing)進行必要(yao)(yao)(yao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)檢查(cha)。2.怎樣遞(di)接(jie)(jie)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian) 在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)取出名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)準備發(fa)(fa)送(song)(song)給(gei)別(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)時(shi)(shi)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)雙手(shou)輕托(tuo)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)至齊(qi)胸的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)高(gao)度并(bing)(bing)將(jiang)正面(mian)(mian)朝向對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)便(bian)(bian)別(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)接(jie)(jie)收(shou)時(shi)(shi)閱讀(du)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)多而自(zi)(zi)己(ji)左手(shou)正拿著一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)疊名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，也(ye)應(ying)該用(yong)(yong)(yong)右手(shou)輕托(tuo)，左手(shou)給(gei)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)輔助，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)張(zhang)(zhang)張(zhang)(zhang)地發(fa)(fa)給(gei)每個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，不要(yao)(yao)(yao)像(xiang)發(fa)(fa)撲克牌一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)樣隨(sui)便(bian)(bian)亂(luan)(luan)丟。雙手(shou)接(jie)(jie)過(guo)他(ta)(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)看(kan)過(guo)之后(hou)(hou)(邊看(kan)邊讀(du)出聲音來，效果(guo)(guo)也(ye)不錯(cuo))，然后(hou)(hou)精(jing)心放(fang)入自(zi)(zi)己(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)夾(jia)或上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)衣(yi)口(kou)(kou)袋(dai)里，也(ye)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)看(kan)后(hou)(hou)先放(fang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)桌(zhuo)子(zi)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，但(dan)不要(yao)(yao)(yao)隨(sui)手(shou)亂(luan)(luan)丟或在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)面(mian)(mian)壓上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)杯子(zi)、文件夾(jia)等東(dong)西(xi)，那是(shi)(shi)很(hen)失禮(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)現。另外，如(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)字比較復雜或有(you)(you)(you)不能(neng)確認(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)發(fa)(fa)音，最(zui)好(hao)(hao)能(neng)禮(li)(li)貌(mao)地向對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)請(qing)教。無論如(ru)(ru)(ru)何(he)總比下次見面(mian)(mian)時(shi)(shi)讀(du)錯(cuo)字，讓(rang)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)板著臉強(qiang)很(hen)多。3.西(xi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)禮(li)(li)儀。西(xi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)使用(yong)(yong)(yong)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)時(shi)(shi)通常寫(xie)(xie)(xie)有(you)(you)(you)幾個(ge)法文單(dan)詞的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)首字母(mu)，它(ta)們(men)(men)分(fen)(fen)別(bie)(bie)代表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)不同的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)含義：n.b.表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)示(shi)(shi)：“提(ti)(ti)請(qing)注意(yi)”。提(ti)(ti)醒對(dui)(dui)(dui)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)注意(yi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)附言(yan)。p.f.表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)示(shi)(shi)：“祝(zhu)賀”。用(yong)(yong)(yong)于(yu)節(jie)日(ri)或其(qi)(qi)他(ta)(ta)(ta)固定(ding)紀(ji)念(nian)日(ri)。p.f.n.a.表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)示(shi)(shi)：“賀年”。p.r.表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)示(shi)(shi)：“感謝”。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)收(shou)到禮(li)(li)物、祝(zhu)賀信或受到款待后(hou)(hou)表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)示(shi)(shi)感謝。p.p.表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)示(shi)(shi)：“介(jie)紹”。通常用(yong)(yong)(yong)來把一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)朋友(you)(you)(you)介(jie)紹給(gei)另一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)朋友(you)(you)(you)。p.p.c.表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)示(shi)(shi)：“辭行”。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)分(fen)(fen)手(shou)時(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)。p.c.表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)示(shi)(shi)：“謹唁”。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)重要(yao)(yao)(yao)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)物逝世時(shi)(shi)，表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)示(shi)(shi)慰問。按(an)照西(xi)方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)禮(li)(li)儀，遞(di)送(song)(song)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)應(ying)注意(yi)到：一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)男(nan)子(zi)去(qu)(qu)(qu)訪(fang)(fang)問一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)家庭(ting)時(shi)(shi)，如(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)想(xiang)送(song)(song)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)分(fen)(fen)別(bie)(bie)給(gei)男(nan)、女主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)各一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)張(zhang)(zhang)，再給(gei)這(zhe)個(ge)家庭(ting)中超(chao)過(guo)18歲的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)女性(xing)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)張(zhang)(zhang)，但(dan)決(jue)不在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)同一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)地方(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)(fang)留下三(san)張(zhang)(zhang)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)。一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)女子(zi)去(qu)(qu)(qu)別(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家作客，如(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)想(xiang)送(song)(song)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)，應(ying)給(gei)這(zhe)個(ge)家庭(ting)中超(chao)過(guo)18歲的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)婦女每人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)張(zhang)(zhang)，但(dan)不要(yao)(yao)(yao)給(gei)男(nan)子(zi)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)拜(bai)訪(fang)(fang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)事(shi)先沒(mei)有(you)(you)(you)約定(ding)，也(ye)不想(xiang)受到會(hui)見，只想(xiang)表(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)(biao)示(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)下敬意(yi)，可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)把名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)遞(di)給(gei)任何(he)來開門的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，請(qing)他(ta)(ta)(ta)轉交主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。如(ru)(ru)(ru)果(guo)(guo)主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)親自(zi)(zi)開門并(bing)(bing)邀(yao)請(qing)進去(qu)(qu)(qu)，也(ye)只應(ying)稍坐片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)刻。將(jiang)名(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)(ming)片(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)(pian)放(fang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)桌(zhuo)上(shang)(shang)(shang)(shang)，不可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)直接(jie)(jie)遞(di)到女主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)手(shou)里。

社交禮儀常識3

　　歐美(mei)國家的(de)人(ren)(ren)們在社交和旅(lv)游、娛樂休(xiu)閑等(deng)公共場合，十分(fen)注意禮儀(yi)風(feng)度和各項禮節，因此，出(chu)行歐美(mei)旅(lv)游、探親(qin)、訪友的(de)國人(ren)(ren)，一定(ding)要注意這些(xie)細節，以(yi)免發生尷(gan)尬、不愉快之事。

　　首(shou)先(xian)要(yao)注(zhu)意(yi)衣著整潔(jie)。紐扣(kou)一定(ding)要(yao)扣(kou)好(hao)，手要(yao)清潔(jie)，指甲(jia)要(yao)剪短，胡須應修剪好(hao)。

　　和(he)人交談(tan)，要(yao)端(duan)莊和(he)藹，彬彬有禮。雙方(fang)不(bu)可(ke)靠得太(tai)近，談(tan)話聲音不(bu)可(ke)太(tai)高；坐時(shi)(shi)忌蹺“二郎(lang)腿”，更(geng)不(bu)能(neng)(neng)抖(dou)腿部；談(tan)話要(yao)專注，忌在大庭廣眾面(mian)前耳語(yu)。初次交談(tan)切忌打聽對方(fang)的(de)(de)收入、家產(chan)、年齡和(he)婚姻(yin)；異性之(zhi)間(jian)交談(tan)時(shi)(shi)眼睛不(bu)能(neng)(neng)老是盯(ding)著對方(fang)；在路上與(yu)婦女(nv)交談(tan)應當邊(bian)走邊(bian)談(tan)，不(bu)能(neng)(neng)停下站著說話；與(yu)婦女(nv)同(tong)座時(shi)(shi)不(bu)要(yao)吸煙；同(tong)相識的(de)(de)婦女(nv)打招呼，男(nan)方(fang)應起立，女(nv)的(de)(de)可(ke)以坐著回答。

　　到人家家里(li)做客，要先脫(tuo)帽而后入(ru)室(shi)。雨天(tian)走訪，雨具(ju)應放在(zai)室(shi)外(wai)，不可穿雨衣入(ru)室(shi)。夫妻同到人家做客，告別時(shi)應當由妻子先起(qi)身告辭。

　　出行(xing)坐車，要讓客(ke)人坐在駕(jia)駛(shi)座旁(pang)邊的(de)位置上，以此為(wei)上座。走在街上不(bu)(bu)可東(dong)(dong)張(zhang)西望、左顧右盼，不(bu)(bu)可亂扔(reng)東(dong)(dong)西與(yu)隨地吐痰。

　　到(dao)餐(can)(can)(can)館(guan)就餐(can)(can)(can)，如果與別人(ren)同(tong)桌，須(xu)征(zheng)得先到(dao)客(ke)人(ren)的(de)(de)同(tong)意后方(fang)可入座，否則，會(hui)被(bei)視(shi)為粗魯(lu)。在(zai)美國(guo)的(de)(de)餐(can)(can)(can)館(guan)，若用餐(can)(can)(can)巾(jin)擦拭刀叉、盤子，服(fu)務(wu)員(yuan)會(hui)馬上換一套餐(can)(can)(can)具(ju)(ju)，在(zai)服(fu)務(wu)員(yuan)看來，顧客(ke)擦拭餐(can)(can)(can)具(ju)(ju)是被(bei)認為餐(can)(can)(can)具(ju)(ju)不干凈。

　　男(nan)女(nv)同行，男(nan)的應走在外側，即靠車行道一(yi)邊，使(shi)女(nv)的多一(yi)分安(an)全(quan)感；開始行走時應讓女(nv)士先行。

　　出(chu)入商店等公共(gong)場所，男(nan)士應(ying)該為女(nv)士開門(men)(men)；年輕的應(ying)該為老年人開門(men)(men)。乘車坐船，男(nan)士應(ying)向女(nv)士讓座(zuo)；男(nan)女(nv)同座(zuo)不要旁(pang)若無人地(di)大聲喧嘩(hua)。

　　另外，還(huan)需要注(zhu)意一(yi)(yi)些(xie)小動作。如翹(qiao)拇指，在(zai)我(wo)(wo)國(guo)和其(qi)他一(yi)(yi)些(xie)國(guo)家表(biao)示(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)稱贊、了不起、第一(yi)(yi)的意思(si)，而在(zai)美國(guo)、法國(guo)表(biao)示(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)攔(lan)路搭車；伸(shen)食指和中指，在(zai)我(wo)(wo)國(guo)表(biao)示(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)第二或數目字“2”，在(zai)英國(guo)則有兩種(zhong)含義，當做這一(yi)(yi)手勢(shi)時，手掌朝著(zhu)對(dui)方(fang)，表(biao)示(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)勝利，若(ruo)手背朝著(zhu)對(dui)方(fang)，則表(biao)示(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)侮辱(ru)；單(dan)伸(shen)食指在(zai)我(wo)(wo)國(guo)表(biao)示(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)數字“1”，還(huan)用于提請(qing)(qing)注(zhu)意，而在(zai)美國(guo)表(biao)示(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)請(qing)(qing)對(dui)方(fang)稍等(deng)，在(zai)澳大利亞則表(biao)示(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)“請(qing)(qing)再來一(yi)(yi)杯啤酒”。

　　在(zai)(zai)我國(guo)，食指(zhi)作彎鉤狀表(biao)示(shi)(shi)“9”，在(zai)(zai)日(ri)本表(biao)示(shi)(shi)小偷；在(zai)(zai)泰(tai)國(guo)、菲律賓(bin)表(biao)示(shi)(shi)門匙(chi)、上(shang)鎖(suo)；印(yin)度尼西(xi)亞表(biao)示(shi)(shi)心(xin)腸壞、吝嗇；在(zai)(zai)新加坡是死亡的(de)表(biao)示(shi)(shi)、還表(biao)示(shi)(shi)拳擊比賽中的(de)擊倒。

　　拇指(zhi)與(yu)食(shi)指(zhi)在我國(guo)表(biao)(biao)(biao)示“O”，中(zhong)指(zhi)、無名(ming)指(zhi)、小指(zhi)翹伸直表(biao)(biao)(biao)示“3”。這兩個手勢合在一起，日本、韓(han)國(guo)、緬甸是(shi)表(biao)(biao)(biao)示金(jin)錢；美國(guo)則表(biao)(biao)(biao)示同意、了不起、順利；印度尼(ni)西亞表(biao)(biao)(biao)示什么也干不成(cheng)和干不了；突尼(ni)斯用來表(biao)(biao)(biao)示傻瓜、無用。

　　在(zai)(zai)我國，人們習慣用(yong)點頭表(biao)示(shi)(shi)同意、認可，搖頭表(biao)示(shi)(shi)否定(ding)、反對。但在(zai)(zai)斯里蘭卡(ka)、印(yin)度、尼泊爾等國，人們卻以搖頭表(biao)示(shi)(shi)同意，點頭表(biao)示(shi)(shi)不同意。

　　百里(li)不同風，千(qian)里(li)不同俗。世界各國之間、一國不同地區(qu)之間，有(you)些(xie)民俗大不相同，有(you)的甚至截然相反。因此到境外旅游，掌握這些(xie)小知識(shi)是十分必要的。