美文欣賞(shang)：你(ni)就(jiu)是這么毀了你(ni)的(de)人生

　　在平(ping)凡(fan)的學(xue)習、工作、生(sheng)活中(zhong)(zhong)，大家(jia)一(yi)定看過(guo)美(mei)(mei)文(wen)吧(ba)？什(shen)么是美(mei)(mei)文(wen)？就像(xiang)一(yi)千(qian)個人(ren)心中(zhong)(zhong)就有一(yi)千(qian)個哈姆雷特一(yi)樣(yang)，每個人(ren)心目(mu)中(zhong)(zhong)都有自己衡(heng)量美(mei)(mei)文(wen)的標準(zhun)。你(ni)知道寫美(mei)(mei)文(wen)的精(jing)髓是什(shen)么嗎(ma)？下(xia)面是小編為(wei)大家(jia)整理的美(mei)(mei)文(wen)欣賞：你(ni)就是這么毀了你(ni)的人(ren)生(sheng)，歡迎閱(yue)讀與收藏。

　　Understand that life is not a straight line. Life is not a set timeline of milestones. You are allowed to backtrack. You are allowed to figure out what inspires you. You are allowed time, and I think we often forget that.

　　你(ni)應該明(ming)白，生(sheng)活不(bu)是一(yi)條直(zhi)線(xian)，也不(bu)是一(yi)個時(shi)間軸，上面標(biao)記了重大事(shi)件。你(ni)可以選(xuan)擇倒帶。你(ni)可以停下來想想是什么東(dong)西(xi)啟發著你(ni)。你(ni)還有很多時(shi)間，我想常常我們忘記了這一(yi)點(dian)。

　　You ruin your life by choosing the wrong person.

　　自毀(hui)人生之一：選(xuan)錯了終(zhong)身伴侶

　　What is it with our need to fast-track relationships? Be alone. Eat alone, take yourself on dates, sleep alone. In the midst of this you will learn about yourself. You will grow, you will figure out what inspires you, you will curate your own dreams, your own beliefs, your own stunning clarity, and when you do meet the person who makes your cells dance, you will be sure of it, because you are sure of yourself.

　　為(wei)什(shen)(shen)么(me)(me)(me)我們覺(jue)得自(zi)(zi)己需(xu)要狂飆(biao)突進似的(de)(de)戀愛(ai)關(guan)系?學著獨處。獨自(zi)(zi)進餐，和自(zi)(zi)己約會(hui)，獨自(zi)(zi)入(ru)眠。在這(zhe)個(ge)(ge)過(guo)程中，你會(hui)明白自(zi)(zi)己是(shi)什(shen)(shen)么(me)(me)(me)樣(yang)的(de)(de)人。你會(hui)有所成長，了解到在人生道(dao)路上(shang)啟(qi)發著你的(de)(de)究竟是(shi)什(shen)(shen)么(me)(me)(me)。你將掌控自(zi)(zi)己的(de)(de)夢想，堅定自(zi)(zi)己的(de)(de)信仰(yang)，理清自(zi)(zi)己的(de)(de)思路。如此(ci)一來，當你遇到那個(ge)(ge)讓你墜(zhui)入(ru)愛(ai)河的(de)(de)人的(de)(de)時候，你能夠確信他(她)就是(shi)那個(ge)(ge)人，因為(wei)你確知你是(shi)什(shen)(shen)么(me)(me)(me)人。

　　You ruin your life by letting your past govern it.

　　自毀人生之二：縱容你的過去(qu)操(cao)控自己(ji)

　　It is common for certain things in life to happen to you. There will be heartbreak, confusion, days where you feel like you aren’t special or purposeful. You cannot let these define you. If you don’t allow yourself to move past what happened, what was felt, you will look at your future with that lens, and nothing will be able to breach that judgment.

　　人生(sheng)不如意十(shi)九(jiu)，這(zhe)是很自(zi)然(ran)的(de)(de)(de)事情。你(ni)可(ke)能會心碎，會迷茫(mang)，會覺(jue)得自(zi)己毫(hao)(hao)無過(guo)(guo)人之處，覺(jue)得自(zi)己活(huo)得毫(hao)(hao)無目的(de)(de)(de)。別讓這(zhe)些(xie)不如意的(de)(de)(de)過(guo)(guo)往(wang)限定自(zi)己。如果你(ni)不能從過(guo)(guo)去(qu)里走出來，從過(guo)(guo)去(qu)的(de)(de)(de)感受(shou)里超(chao)脫，你(ni)就會帶著過(guo)(guo)去(qu)的(de)(de)(de)眼光看待自(zi)己的(de)(de)(de)未(wei)來，那(nei)么所有事情無一(yi)例外都會受(shou)這(zhe)種偏見的(de)(de)(de)影響。

　　You ruin your life when you compare yourself to others.

　　自毀(hui)人(ren)生之(zhi)三：比附他人(ren)

　　We get caught up in what our friends are liking, who our significant others are following, and at the end of the day this not only ruins our lives, but it also ruins us.

　　我們(men)常常為了(le)他人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)偏好桎梏自己：我們(men)的(de)(de)朋友們(men)喜歡(huan)什么(me)，我們(men)的(de)(de)戀人(ren)(ren)在追求什么(me)，如(ru)此一來，不僅會把我們(men)的(de)(de)生活弄(nong)得一團(tuan)糟，也把我們(men)的(de)(de)關系(xi)弄(nong)得一團(tuan)糟。

　　You ruin your life by tolerating it.

　　自毀人生之四(si)：一味忍耐

　　At the end of the day you should be excited to be alive. When you settle for anything less than what you innately desire, you destroy the possibility that lives inside of you. Life and work, and life and love, are notirrespective of each other. They are intrinsically linked. We have to strive to do extraordinary work, we have to strive to find extraordinary love. Only then will we tap into an extraordinarily blissful life.

　　最重要的(de)是，你(ni)應該為活著而感(gan)到歡欣。如果(guo)你(ni)不去追求內心渴(ke)望的(de)東西，而是得過且(qie)過，你(ni)就喪失了(le)讓自己內心的(de)想法實現的(de)機會(hui)。生活與工作，生活與愛情，它們(men)并不是不相干的(de)。它們(men)之間都有著內在的(de)聯系。我們(men)必須(xu)努力(li)把工作干得棒(bang)棒(bang)的(de)，努力(li)把情感(gan)經營得棒(bang)棒(bang)的(de)。只有這樣，我們(men)才能獲(huo)得美好(hao)的(de)，幸福的(de)生活。

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